Quote : Love



       Sometimes we make the mistake of thinking that listening and hearing to someone is the same thing . They may sound the same but think about it are they really ?. Unfortunately I've loved and lost because I didnt listen .I heard but didnt really listen .When I sit back and reflect back on that time I realize I heard alot but didnt quite listento what the other person was saying. Sometimes yu may even miss out on what the other person is feeling.I like to call this selective hearing. You hear whatyou want what they are actually saying .So ive come to the conclision that when it comes to love one must learn to listen without judgement.Really listen and although you may not agree but you have to listen . Feed back most o the time is not necessary , a person in love can get more soothingfrom some one listening than their loved one responding. Communication is the key to keeping love. Some get it some dont all because they heard but didnt listen with their heart.So, always remember, The first duty of love is to listen.